Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
I've asked about "other" things but she isn't into it. She was never not into it before. I think she wasn't to avoid anything that could possibly put her in the mood for sex.

That's the kind of thing that needs to get talked about extensively in negotiation. You find out her perspective, she founds out your perspective, you gain information so that you can brainstorm solutions that take both perspectives into account.

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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.