Wife just yelled at me for being dishonest. She asked me multiple times last night and this morning if I was mad at her to which I replied "no". So I sent her an email to approach the subject of birth control, because face to face hasn't worked. I let her know some of the things that bothered me regarding the subject. She just read and and let me have it. She called me the biggest liar in the world. Being honest all the time with my wife causes there to be fights, so I've learned over the years to just gut it out which I know is wrong. So the part that sucks is that something like this will cause conflict for at least a week or two. She doesn't get over things and will resent me a ton. It has already started and no matter what I say or how many times I apologize she'll just keep resenting me indefinitely.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD