I'm not perfect, nor innocent in this marriage. I have done my fair share to cause her pain. I don't know how important the marriage is to her, in fact I've often thought it was more important to me and that she is frequently indifferent about it.

Yes, that may be genuinely how she feels.

You affect her feelings.

There is a plan here at Marriage Builders for you to affect her feelings in a positive way.

You don't like the way she appears to feel about your marriage, and you are judging her for it, and you would like to make her feel differently.

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.