Originally Posted by Cameo2
It destroys your credibility and does seem like an empty threat.

Hold the phone there. Are you suggesting he should be willing to stay in a marriage with a spouse who refuses to have sex with him? No responsible marriage counselor would advise that. Dr Harley does not advise that. The issue at hand is whether he tells her it will end the marriage or if he follows the plan in When to Call it Quits and just separates after attempting to get her to meet his needs.

What are you suggesting exactly? How long EXACTLY should he endure being deprived of sex?

And by the way, I very much DO see Prisca's point and can see how it fits with the article she posted.

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