Originally Posted by freefall
Pressuring her for sex or complaining that your sexual needs are not being met will make her less willing to try to fulfill your EN of SF. She may also become fearful that you will leave her or have an affair.

She needs to understand that this is where her marriage is headed though. Refusing to meet your spouse's needs is a deal breaker. Not even Dr Harley recommends staying in a marriage where one spouse REFUSES to meet the other's needs. My XH had an affair and left me for the OW for this very reason. Dr Harley recommends that the neglected spouse separate and eventually divorce if one spouse won't meet the needs of the other.

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