I know you are right Markos but what I don't understand is that Topper has made a commitment to work on his marriage and he has shown progress. Why does his wife regress when he has shown the necessary actions?

I know I worked harder in recovery when my wife showed me that she too was going to work at it.

Does her love bank have to be full for her to try and meet his needs?? Just confused on my end I guess.

Married 8 years
Divorced 2-2012