Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
Originally Posted by markos
Can you give us an example of how you ask for your needs to be met?

How would you feel about dropping the kids off at the inlaws and going for a run with me Saturday morning?

And how does she respond?

She actually said it sounded fun but that she didn't want to "waste" the use of her parents time in place of other babysitting opportunities. Those other opportunities all involved activities with other friends, not one on one time.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD