Originally Posted by markos
Originally Posted by MrNiceGuy
Hill ... I am sorry things are not going well for you, or at least not getting better. Are you managing to get in 15hrs a week of UA? I know i am not consistantly .. but when my wife and I do, it sure makes a difference. We recently had a huge blow out in the family (you can see my thread if you like) and it took a huge toll on my wife and I .. almost regressed us back to a horrible state .. doesnt take much time at all to make massive LB withdrawls to make things ugly again. The UA is SUPER important .. once we got back on track with our UA things started to turn around again to the positive.

My understanding is that Hilltopper's wife has not been enthusiastic about spending 15 hours together.

She says she wants to spend that time with me and if I acted like I cared and planned it that we'd do it more. On the flip side through many encounters and suggestions she has made it clear she doesn't want for me to plan for sitters and schedules.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD