Concrete suggestions of things you can DO:

* Plan time for you and your wife.
* Become involved in talking about and working on her problems with her
* Give Dr. Harley another call

If you are serious about saving your marriage, you can't get it all on this forum. You've got to listen to the Marriage Builders Radio show, every day. Install the app!

Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.