* Do the two of you stay in contact during the day? Do you talk to her about what is going on during her day? Do you support her? Do you show her daily she is more important than your job?

* Do you have a plan for this date? Have you shown some initiative?

* Do you have a plan for something to do at home this week, too? Show some more initiative. She asked you to plan things.

* Do you have a plan for dates and at-home activities next week?

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Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.