Acquaintance lost sensation after a V and can't make it happen fair enough?

Anyways times are good as I'm focused. One issue I am having is not reacting to lovebusters. To be intellectually honest I'm rarely disrespectful unless I've been disrespectful. I'm no saint, just extremely practical. The most common is my wife DJing me about anything and me letting it get to me and reacting to her. The mist common is me feeling offended and expressing my views.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD