Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972

We are well past that stage in this journey and there was a time yes that I definitely DJ'd my wife about SF. She has made it clear that she wants me to ask for things, SF being one of them. This doesn't mean that she won't say no and I've learned(am learning) how to deal with that. The act itself is typically very "chore-like" which hurts me deeply but I think will change when she crosses that threshold of love.


Yes it is very hard to deal with "no". I'm learning that myself. But keep up the good work with the no DJ's. Hopefully it will make all the difference.