Originally Posted By: JessicaGC
Originally Posted By: kilted_thrower
Good job. But if you feel her comment is snide and a swipe at you, then it's okay to point that out.

"Oh I'm sorry, I'll remember foil when I put foods in the fridge from now on. Next time I'd appreciate it if you just stated your request. I feel insulted by the way you brought that to my attention." Then tell her you love her and ask her how her day was.


I don't know about this kilted_thrower. After all she isn't fully on board with MB and assuming that she meant that comment as an insult could be a DJ? I think I'm right in that. Considering that he is trying to FILL not DEPLETE her love bank so he can get her on board with this plan I don't know that responding that way would be effective at the moment.


That is correct, if I didn't convey that very well, I will now. She meant it 100% as a DJ. Secondly since she is not on board with MB, but knows the lingo since she participated in the forums for about 3 months, she'll get a bad taste in her mouth that I'm preaching. I'm kind of trying to do the MB program incognito.


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