Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972
She tested me last night for sure. We had a massage + xoxo date last night. Instead we stayed up later because she wanted to watch a show. I didn't show disappointment at her saying that she no longer wanted to do massages. She then snuggled up with me in bed and told me she loved me and that was our "moment." Historically I would pout or toss a DJ her way but as a brave knight I passed the test. There will surely be more to come and I'll be prepared.


I think you did great. Since you (like me) have a history of not keeping your cool about things like this, she probably feels really ansy about it. But you keep calm, you remained affectionate. Pour it on!

For the record, Dr. Harley is a big advocate of cuddling in bed before you go to sleep, and when you wake up.


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