Notice how the frustration you mentioned in your last post yesterday preceded your DJ last night. They may not appear to be directly related, but it's possible that the frustration earlier in the day made you more susceptible to becoming frustrated more quickly later on.

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Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 19 years. Father of 8.
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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.