Originally Posted by kilted_thrower
I'm glad you stuck up for yourself. I think you could have worded that a lot better though. You could have mentioned that you were not aware she wanted you to clean it out but if she will give you a heads up next time she wants something specifically done, give you a heads up and you will. If she gets snippy with you, that's okay. Don't react to it;you've made your point. Move on.

Or tell her that you were busy and hadn't had time to get to it but you will when you get finished with a,b,and c .

Yeah I wanted to reply respectfully but that comment left my mouth before I could reel it back in, uggggh! Today has been great so far.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD