Originally Posted by HDW
Hilltopper,
My wife said the very same thing about sex. She said she was "sensitive to latex" (so no condoms) and she wanted me to get a vasectomy.

I refused a vasectomy. And I'm glad I did because I'm getting divorced now.

But I know an older man that got one years ago and he said sex went up 100% after he got his because hsi wife didnt worry about being pregnant anymore.

Yep, that is the biggest reason. I didn't get one before because I didn't feel it would change the amount of sex we'd have anyways. It was kind of a stand off. Now I do get some and I hate using condoms with a passion anyways. The goal is to eliminate the pregnancy issue among other things, make my wife fall in love, and then move the needle on SF to a level that is more in line with my current needs.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD