Used to bother me a lot. Noe I realize my marriage is better served by a philosophy of "everyone's entitled to their opinions, even if wrong." Avoid trying to straighten your wife out like this. It's a lovebank withdrawal. She can still fall in love with you even if she holds opinions about you that you believe are mistaken. You may worry that her belief that you left the ac on is a lovebank withdrawal, but you will lose out worse trying to fix it. Respect her and respect this as a simple difference of opinion. Otherwise you will make her feel extremely unimportant.


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Married to my radiant trophy wife, Prisca, 17 years, who is a beautiful angel.
Attended Marriage Builders weekend in May 2010

If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.