Originally Posted By: Hilltopper1972
Originally Posted By: MelodyLane
That sounds like a great idea! Would she be agreeable to that?


I mentioned it last night and she'll consider it. It didn't come without a snicker comment, "like marriage builders honey?" She offered gratuitous sex last night and I turned it down. I literally would prefer to have none quite frankly. She got defensive about it, baited me, and I reacted again. I can't do this anymore. I can't be the only one on this path no matter how much time we spend together. I explained how serious this subject is to me because honestly I don't think she believes it is.



What path would that be, Hill? Sounds to me like you're on a pretty ugly path, yourself.

I'm glad you're going to talk to Steve. I like him a lot, and so did my husband.


Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
(Oscar Wilde)