Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by Hilltopper1972
I just filled out a request to speak with Steve. Last night spilled over into this morning and we are both on edge. She rushed out the door to the gym again to start this crazy cycle all over again. It has to change.

I think thats a good idea. Steve can hopefully guide you out of this morass. When a situation doesn't change in 2 years, it is time to try something new.

Yep I suggested a complete overhaul of our schedule to my wife. We'll see how she responds. I contacted Steve either way, even if it is just working on my tendency to overreact. If she reacts poorly then I'll let Steve handle it. I can't imagine that spending 4 hours a day together without the kids wouldn't be life changing for us.


Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD