Originally Posted by MrNiceGuy
Morning Hill .. I see that you let your emotions get the best of you again. Its not an easy process.. beenderdundat and many times I let my emotions get the best of me.. heck it still happens once in a while. NO one is perfect.

I just wanted to let you know that because of your wifes reluctance towards MB, I fear your situation will get worse before it gets better. Not saying it WON'T get better.. but I hope for your sanity and your marriage that Steve can convince your wife MB is the way (because it is). But be prepared for some brazen words from your wife. Keep cool. Its a marathon .. not a sprint.

Good Luck.


If we spend more time together, which is the plan, I just don't see that happening. I had a breakdown, blew it, and there will be repercussions that I'll have to live with. My wife doesn't object to spending time together and never has. We have to get a sitter 5 days a week though for it to happen in all honesty. If we don't make this important move I think I'll be miserable and she'll be status quo, and I'll be the one to screw up. All I know is that I'm NOT ok with a non-romantic relationship and I want more than anything for my wife to be in love with me and vice versa.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD