Originally Posted by BrokenHeart4
Every time I try to get affectionate and tell her how much I love her, she makes this hurtful comment how she loves me like a brother.

This is a form of ILYBINILWY (I love you but I am not in love with you) and very typical for someone in an affair to say.

She does spend and inordinate amount of time on her iPhone

Again, very indicative of someone in an affair.

Please do not ASK if she is having an affair. Can you access her phone records to see who she is texting/talking to?

Is her phone password locked? I would also slap a keylogger on her phone and any computers she may be using.

Sorry you are here....

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