Originally Posted By: TomHusband
But what if you have a small suspicion and would rather not go ballistic with all this tech stuff to spy on your partner, wouldn't it be better to just talk to them and as least hear them out?

No, because they lie.

Check up on them quietly until it is boring. That will cause you to not invest any more effort than is necessary.

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