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Originally Posted by Prisca
How is quietly checking up on your spouse "going ballistic"?

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would rather not go ballistic with all this tech stuff to spy on your partner
Are you married?

Legally?


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Originally Posted by TomHusband
But what if you have a small suspicion and would rather not go ballistic with all this tech stuff to spy on your partner, wouldn't it be better to just talk to them and as least hear them out?

No, because they lie.

Check up on them quietly until it is boring. That will cause you to not invest any more effort than is necessary.


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Do as I did, read as much as you can. I was also sceptical at first. Now I know the concepts are not based on just a theory, but on research. And Dr. Harley has managed to transform this research into a idiotproof plan. I haven't discovered any study that contradicts the basic concepts. I did find studies that support what Dr. Harley teaches.

I studied mechanical engineering and like logic. This "clicks" in my brain. It is logic and well balanced.

It's like IKEA for marriage. There are components and tools, any nitwit can follow the instructions and build the furniture. If you leave a component out, it will most likely fail. You can leave some screws aside and glue the thing together, but when you follow the plan, the end result will be more durable and less likely to fall apart. A table falling apart is not so bad, a marriage falling apart is what we want to avoid.

People love to take shortcuts to get to the end result. The thing about marriagebuilders, every shortcut is already in there. If you skip more, you probably skip an essential part and get bad results.

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