Originally Posted by SusieQ
Originally Posted by anonymityplease
Well, she did really neither. She wants space, freedom, and independence from me and the kids, but she's also not willing to end our marriage. She's very indecisive. And yet, she will not do anything that could be seen as a positive step for rebuilding our relationship.

Of course. She's cake eating which is very NORMAL for a wayward spouse. She is getting some needs met by the OM (currently - and I assure you of this) and some needs met by you.

Later you're going to realize that this is correct.

If you address it soon enough there's a better chance of turning this around.

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If your wife is not on board with MB, some of my posts to other men might help you.