Originally Posted by OTDL2001
Having a hard time coming up with OM wife or GF. I would almost have to stick my neck out and talk to a guy at the bar. I have to trust that he won't say anything. Or can a PI find this out for me?

Get the goods from the PI first. Don't show your hand and don't rush. Your best chance of busting the affair is going to be getting everything lined up before they have a clue that you are on to them. Affairs are as addictive as heroin (maybe more so). That is also why spyware is so valuable. I caught my serial cheater ex through a single phone call. He got careless just once.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
(formerly lied_to_again)