Hi SueB! Looks like you posted a while back. Hope you see this. I hope tnt is alive and thriving. This forum helped me so much at the time I needed lots of help.

* Married 1987, no kids * H is Vietnam vet with no treatment for ptsd * 1 year marriage counselling, 8 months alone, 4 months together * Separated January 2002 * Divorced December 2003