Ok, these are just some thoughts, but honestly your wife is who you should ask these questions of. Ask her what makes her tick. Ask her what would help her to feel loved. Acknowledge that you realize you may be overlooking something that matters to her (needs wise), and you could use her help to know what it is.<p>On the other token - small things go a long way. Your hair looks nice. You look pretty. I like that on you. Or, plan a night out, dinner, movie, or something else she likes. Flowers - one for each year of marriage. Does she wear earings? You could get her some heart earings (three dangling) - 1=past, 1=present, and 1=future. Or maybe a little dance on the porch or in the yard under the moon light. Have a little table with candles and wine or champaigne. A little kiss and I love you out of the blue, just 'cause. I call during the day saying I was thinking about you and wanted you to know that. Tell her you appreciate what she does (dinner, dishes, laundry, etc.) Sometimes we come to take these things for granted and not realize that it's nice to hear once in a while that it's appreciated. I've made the same mistake with my husband. Here is one you can try - for a romantic evening. Get a room at a hotel with a jacuzzi in the room. Get some rose pedals. Get something to snack (chocalate covered strawberries), candles and wine. Put the snacks, candles, wine and pedals around the jacuzzi (some pedals in the jacuzzi) and enjoy the intimate time together.<p>Just a few ideas. I hope they help. I wish you the best. Keep us posted, and know we are here to help when we can. Take care.
