As my life goes, one day it's not to bad, next day it sucks again. As my wife asked for a divorce last weekend, she had to one up herself this weekend. Now she is going to go back with her new boyfriend to the town he lives in, after spending the weekend with him where, me and the kids are living. The best part of it being that since it is mothers day and all she decided this is the good time to meet her new boyfriend that she has known for all of two months, and left us all for while she went and had fun. Great she'll introduce the five kids to him, have a nice little lunch on mother's day, then turn around and pack up and leave for a few weeks while she goes back to where he lives. I'll pick up the pieces of the kids emotions, while I try to remove the knife from my back again, just in time to have her come back and screw with our minds again. Just had to vent, if I don't do it here, I'll let her know when I see her, and at present I will not give her any reason to feel good about leaving me regarding how I treated her.

Good plan.....sometimes it is so doggone hard not to fuel their rationalizations. You are doing a good job.<p>Hang in there for the kids--that is the tough part. And come here to vent anytime.