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I am scared that my WW will find out about my posts. I am not sure how I would play this if she did. I am sure she would say "this is our private life, how could you put in on a message board." She then would go on to read all of my posts. I am sure I would be very embarassed.<p>I do not even want to tell her about the forum. She knows about this website because she shared it with me. I am constantly deleting the history, cookies, etc. to prevent her from accidently coming upon my posts and my name.<p>I am being foolish here. I have a feeling this would be a big LB. Should I ever tell her about this.<p>Please let me know your opinions on this, and If you keep this forum secret from your spouse.
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Good questions, I have the same concern. I think you can go back and edit the old posts, removing any embarrassing LB'er type information. As part of the process, I think "Radical Honesty" will help deal with this. We would need to let our S know what we are doing.<p>You are anonymous aren't you? You can just let her know that nobody knows you from Adam.
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why not let her see it-i wish my husband would come here and read and post. too embarassed. i think he could learn so much. plus you shouldnt post anything they couldnt read or hear in person anyway. thats my rule-if i wont eventually say it to him anyway, dont write it.
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