I don't know you all. However, I feel like i have friends here. Strange isn't it that when it gets to be to much for me, here i come here. Here i have realized that i am not alone, that with or without him i will be ok. That many of you have walked in my shoes. That your advice is from experience. This morning I saw this quote and I am going to apply it. Learn from the mistakes of others; you can't live long enough to make them all yourself.<p>Have a great day ya'll
THANKS FOR BEING THERE.

That quote was included in a pass-around Email a friend sent me yesterday, so I stuck it on my sig line because it's basically what this site is for.<p>Before D-day, I had already been looking for answers regarding infidelity and how to survive since I suspected that was what was happening to my M. So, by D-day, I had already talked to many survivors and those in recovery. When my H confessed and wanted to move back home, I shared with him what I learned from the experts (those who've already been down this road), and I outlined in detail what was necessary to have any chance of recovery. I told him that I would have to put my trust in them since I couldn't trust him anymore.<p>Unfortunately, he has chosen to disregard all that for the last 8 months. If he had followed the advice of that quote as I was trying to do, we would be 8 months further along. Life is too short to waste so much time when you don't have to.

Hi cloudy!
Cute quote, nice to hear you are still hanging in there too<p>Just checking in, all my best!<p>-HI