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Question on - Bringing up EA because of Triggers
#1003964 05/24/02 11:46 AM
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There are many triggers at work lately so, for some reassurance I have been calling my WH just to talk. <p>Sometimes I bring up questions or situations that bother me about the A. Questions about what the OW wrote in her emails if he was feeling the same about her. I usually get that there were never any feelings for her, just liked the attention. <p>There was no S. Kissing and no petting. <p>My question is, should I just keep those questions to myself, should I write them in a journal and never talk to my WH about them. <p>It's very confusing. I usually get the same answer but, I can't seem to stop brining it up. <p>Thanks.
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Very good question, Bearcub. I really hope you (we [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] ) get some helpful replies on this one. I feel like I've been kicking a dead horse about my H's EA last Summer....he says it was NOTHING, but I still think it was EA, and constantly wonder if there was more to it (for him) than he's telling me.<p>at peace
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At Peace<p>I'm told they were just friends, as far as he was concerned, that she took it to mean more. <p>I know that she did think it meant more because of her emails professing her love and so on. <p>"Dead Horse" is a good way at looking at it.

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