Just found out that WH has been seeing OW2 all along & in addition they are both heavy into (substance). Another good friend of his is involved (doing basically the same thing) His wife found out about the drugs & kiked him out for a week. <p>I'm done plan A & I'm done plan B. Onto plan D (or maybe legal separation. We are in business together and we are on the brink of loosing everything (materially)<p>As soon as I heard, I knew it had to end. He's done this before. It is said that WH is acting very arrogant, rude and flaunting what he is doing. <p>Any words of wisdom? I have not confronted him yet. Wanted to have a clear action plan with certain things already in place. Have called my attorney. I know I need to change bank accounts.<p>All in all, I can say that I left no stone unturned, and I can look myself in the mirror. I am thankful for MB even though it turned out this way. I am a better person for it.<p>I've not even cried yet - it's like I'm super calm. (hard to explain) Right after I found out, I had to go into our business & play at all day. <p>Please pray for me. <p> <img src="graemlins/teary.gif" border="0" alt="[Teary]" /> [img]images/icons/mad.gif" border="0[/img] [img]images/icons/blush.gif" border="0[/img] <img src="graemlins/teary.gif" border="0" alt="[Teary]" /><p>[ June 23, 2002: Message edited by: WillGetThruThis ]</p>

Hi, <p>Sorry to hear of this current status. You do have grounds and as you said, you have given it your best. That is the intent of plans A & B. <p>Are you already in contact with a lawyer and MC? Now you will need legal guidance esp since you have the business. <p>Rock bottom for him will come. When and how is still undetermined but you need to protect the interests of you and your family. <p>I wish you well. The fact that you are able to view this in a calm manner, may be an indicator from deep within you that you have realized this is a step you must take.<p>
Hugz,
L.

Good Morning L.<p>I have contacted an attorney, but he has not called back yet. It's really complicated when it comes to the business. Things between us seemed to be getting better, so I went ahead with a new phase of the business, & now I'm out on a tight rope balancing ever so carefully. <p>There are so many decisions to be made. Thanks for you response.<p>D.

D.,
You have responded faithfully to my posts, and now I want you to know I'm praying for you. I have no words to give you, I just ask for God to guide you, give you his peace and his Holy Spirit.
KK

I'm so sorry for this discovery [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] You're probly still in shock. The tears will come later, but they will be cleansing. You deserve much more than this. Definatly see a lawyer and do everything through there. Be careful and take care.

KK,<p>Thanks for your prayers. I know that God will get me through this & His Holy Spirit will give my the wisdom & strenght I need. He has proved that before. I'm finding it hard to pray for me right now, so your prayers are very important to me.<p>I've been staying with my Mom (My sister her her H also live there) and thank God, everyone is away today. Good friends have my youngest son & know about what is going on & are very supportive.<p>I can't tell you how important the forum is to me right now. Yesterday morning after finding out I asked God for help & I started to list the support that I had & this was a bvig one. Even though we are faceless to one another, the bond is strong.<p>Hope4future,<p>Thanks for your response. The tears are starting to flow. No one knows I know except my 1 friends. The older kids are talking about future plans, just typical stuff, but I have no concept of time except to get through right now, just this moment.<p>I feel like a fool to have believed him this spring. I actually thought things were getting better. I think he did that just so I would participate in the new business venture. <p>I feel like blowing everything wide open, but won't. Need to protect me & the kids right now.<p>Thanks for all your support,<p>D. <img src="graemlins/teary.gif" border="0" alt="[Teary]" />