<p>[ June 02, 2002: Message edited by: laz ]</p>

So you want us to help you figure out how to straighten out your illicit affair with the OW after you have dumped your pregnant wife? This is MarriageBuilders.com, not Infidelity.com.

Really Laz; if you want to fix your marriage you're in the right place, if you want support for your affair and how to fix a relationship that is based on lies, cheating and deceit, you're in the wrong place.

Boy...oh Boy....<p>I cannot resist this so you are going to really hear it.<p>This must surely be a joke...and in the case that it is not, listen close laz.<p>This might be the one and only time that I will ever feel sorry for the "ow". <p>Your use of the word "warning" in the post says a lot.<p>And, whats with the overuse of that word "relocate". For a self proclaimed "profession" (sic) when it should have read "professional" you are alittle on the illiterate side. Relocate means to move, she is merely opting to "remove" herself from such a insane and exasperating situation (cannot say that I blame her).<p>You have some gall to question "her" committment to you when you have none to her. What kinda crap is that??? Please tell me that you are not for real.<p>So, what you are asking is this....<p>How do I build this affair?<p>Right???<p>Take it away all you Veterans of this forum..<p>(I can imagine that there might be some words out there for me too...if so...go for it.) [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

Now here is a man who wishes to have his cake along with all the trimmings. You seem to have made false promises to your OW while still sleeping with your W. How dare you come to a site like this and ask how to mend your "Affair". Have you even given thought to the child that has been conceived. If you wish to be with the other woman than do so...but then tell your W so that she can get on with her life. She surely deserves a better man than you. Then you can focus on your OW entirely...at least until "another" OW comes along.

laz,<p>"Committment" is not a feature of an illicit affair. Further, I don't think anyone in thier right mind would help you in your destruction of your marriage and your wife and soon to be child. We won't help you destroy your wife behind her back.

Laz,<p>The reason the OW continues to "RELOCATE" is because regardless of your "commitment" to her, she innately knows your relationship with her is based on LIES, DECEIT and ILLICIT SEX, she knows that no matter what you two do to try and make your relationship right, it won't be. <p>Her guilt, her mistrust of you and her selfishness is the CORE reason you two will never last and will inevitably self destruct, AND SHE KNOWS IT!<p>I see you deleted you post, Laz. Is that something someone who is honest and who is doing the right thing would need to do? Your guilt certainly weighs on you, doesn't it. How can you believe you and OW will have a wonderful future together when you are TAKING it at the expense of your wife and family?<p>Jo<p>[ June 02, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>

Laz,<p>Are you going to run? If what you and OW are doing is so RIGHT, then respond back to us, instead of running.<p>[ June 02, 2002: Message edited by: Resilient ]</p>