Hello everyone! Well here I am 3 weeks after seperating from my H (his choice) & have come back to the village we lived in (I will be returning here in 3 weeks to a rented house)
Well after being here for 3 days with no sight of him I finally saw him in the pub last night.
He was as happy as anything laughing & jokin with everyone as so was i we had not acknowleded each other being there at this stage, when this guy that used to live here came up to me ran his fingers thru my hair & yelled accross the pub at my H hey .... look over here at this great looking girl! Well everyone looked round i felt about 3 inches high & because of thecrowd in the pub i thought it best to leave it. So after a while i wandered over to get a drink by where my H was standing talking to a friend of ours & took some advise i had read somewhere about just treating H as though he was someone elses H & said Hi ..... how r u? he just turned to me with a big smile on his face & said good!! & walked to the other side of the bar away from us.. so i just carried on talking to our friend as tho nothing had happened & was really proud of myself don't know what H was thinking as he had told our friend that he didn't go 2 the pub very often as not many people down there would talk to him.
I do have to admit tho that I felt very hurt inside that H didn't stop to chat more but didn't let it show, had a very sleepless nite tho.
We are meant to be in plan B because every time we talked it ended up in a row but am hanging out to get my credit card & have some counselling with the Harleys to help me deal with this.
Anyway 2nite!! yip 2nite I have a meeting with H to discuss a final thing for the lawyers (hell this has all happened soooooo fast) not sure where it will be maybe at his rented house & I feel soooooooo nervous about it tis not funny so am looking for some suggestions on how to act what 2 say etc etc PLEASE HELP IF YA CAN as every other meeting we have had i have blown it & got upset (maybe a bottle of wine b4 i go eh! so i can fall in the door in a drunken heap!! ha ha) no but seriously everythin has been sold H says we can never live 2gether anymore it just won't work ya know all that stuff so i need to act cool as i love him 2 bits, but sadly he doesn't love me anymore. I did text him last nite to apologise about what that guy said because i know H would have assumed that we were talking about him which we weren't. OK now i await your replies>>>> & a little bit of magic would b cool....

well I can't help you at all. But I will tell you that there is someone upstairs that can help if you will just ask him.

Dear wrungout,<p>U sound good!!! Wow, getting recognized is not a bad thing. No need to apologize to your H about that. Let him drool while you look cool [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] !!! LOL! [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] <p>For your meeting, just keep calm and collective. You will find that you can keep the upper hand as long as you respect yourself. <p>Take Care,