Howbre,
There is always hope for recovery and trust to be regained.
IT is now up to YOU to EARN it and to show your wife support and Love and compasssion when she needs it most. Personally I feel nothing but joy and awe at WS's who come trying to fix their wrong. I wish my WS was one of them...
Please keep in mind it has only been 3 months since your W found out.... her wounds are still fresh and opened
One of the best things you can do for now is to show your remorse for your failings. If she asks questions about your A be HONEST with her about it.. she deserves to know the truth and the sooned she knows EVERYTHING the sooner you 2 will be on the road to recovery.
If she asks the same questions over and over answer them over and over ... I call this hurtful healing but it truley works.. as for me it has been 2 years since i found about H's infidelity and I am STILL getting new info on it... And every time i find out something new it slides be backwards in recovery rather than forward.<p>Plan A her with all your love you have and eventually you will find her responding.
IT is a long and painful process to rebuild your marriage but it CAN happen just keep in mind it is much easier to destroy a marriage then to rebuild one and you have alot of work ahead of you.
YOU can do it it will take time but it will reap it rewards.. for ME it is taking years as it may take you but the more effort you show the better off you will be
good luck
keep us posted.
