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I was really down this morning but my attitude has changed a bit this afternoon. So all of us BS's:<p>Let's Plan A to improve ourselves. Lets plan A for ourselves and our family (which includes WS). And if our WS doesn't want the new and improved us, then it's their loss. Let's take advantage of this opertunity and if our WS don't then we will move on. I will no longer be a doormat.
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I second that SCBI!!!! Let's do it for us! Whoo hoo!!!!!<p>So what are we doing for ourselves this weekend? I'm going out with the girls tonight for some karaoke (yes, I am a closet karaoke singer). Taking care of friends dogs this weekend at her house, so I'll be surrounded by the love of 3 labs! Making plans for dinner and dancing tomorrow evening!<p>Three cheers for BS's and Plan A'ing for Us! Cheer! Cheer! Cheer!<p>Llama
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Yep that is the ultimate attitude we should take because it will pay us big dividends in the future, be it with our present partner or with a future one.
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A Dune fan...excellent! I love the Litany.
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I love dune, and my WW hates it. Great, I think I will watch it on DVD.<p>[ June 07, 2002: Message edited by: StillCan'tBelieveIt ]</p>
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Wow! I never thought I would be able to apply my love of SF to my experience with infidelity. But I think I will adapt the Bene Gesserit Litany against Fear to my fear of my first face-to-face meeting with the OW. Thanks Toomuchcoffeeman!
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Your welcome scifigal78, although the late Frank Herbert would be miffed as to how I mutated his litany of fear [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]
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im going to get a sitter and take the whole day for me-go to gym, go to see divine secrets of the ya ya sisterhood, maybe get a pedicure. wooo-hooo!!<p>and im going to the beach tomorrow to see my parents-i cant wait.
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