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What Goes Around, Comes Around?
#1007443 06/11/02 04:02 PM
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Ok, here is a kicker! I was accused of having a torrid affair. I was seeing someone as friends but never had sex, I guess you could call it a EA. I stopped it and tried to work on our marriage. We have been in counselling for over a year.<p>Well, NOW I find out that it was him all along that was having the A. And that she was not the only one. <p>Burning up with the information, but also just plain sad. Neither of us are who we thought we were.<p>Sooo, where do I go from here?
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I am so sorry to hear you are going through this. <p>Does your H want to work on the marriage? Do you? If so, then I would suggest that you two start going to MC on a regular basis. Read this site, do some research, post as often as you need, and start working on you. See how open your H is to working on him, and then the two of you can work together to try to meet eachothers needs.<p>I hope this helps some. I know is's rather short, but you simply asked where to go from here. I would have to say this would be a start. There are many here who have lived to a better marriage. It is possible, but it's a long, hard road, that both of you have to be willing to take together. <p>My best to you. Take care.

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