My husband and I are trying to walk down the road of recovery together. D-day was only a month ago, so it's extremly fresh.<p>I want to hear from others if this is an acceptable plan for Father's Day. We have made love since D-Day, though both of us agree would love it more than we have had. (I guess that is a good sign!).<p>I will take the kids to the store to pick something for daddy (1 gift from each kid). I will then go to a store to pick up something sexy for me to wear for him. That morning, the kids and I will bring him breakfast in bed (pancakes, coffee, etc) and the kids can give him his presents. Then the kids can be set up with the computer, video, something that will occupy them, and I can give hubby my gift.<p>Today I had to go to Wal-Mart. One just opened up nearby. He asked that I pick up something that can represent us starting new, and he recommended I buy new wine glasses that we can drink wine in together. Being Wal-Mart, it was tough, but I found gold trimmed glasses for us. I had wanted to buy some silky like jammies to wear to bed (instead of frumpy stuff), but well, it was Wal-Mart LOL.<p>Anyway, hubby seems to like the thought of me getting something for him like this, but would love opinions of others.

Lisa,<p>I think you are on the right track here. I suspect that the best gift you could give him is:.... YOU. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] Seriously, not just a good romp n the sack, but YOU. How you feel about him and how you feel about the marriage. After all you are part of the reason he is celebrating Father's Day. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Lisa, I don't think you should be discussing the A's but rather what you think of him and what you want the future to be with regard to him. You just might get a gift yourself. You just might get more insight into your H, you, and your future. Not bad if it happens.<p>God Bless,<p>JL

Lisa if I wasn't engaged to a lovely and loving woman, I would ask you if I could clone you [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img]