I just noticed a reply you made to one of my posts a couple of days ago. I replied to it but wasn't sure you'd see it, so here's my question again.<p>How do you deal with family gatherings? We were/are very close with OW's family. They don't know about A (just me, H, and OW do). We don't intend to tell them at this point, for fear of hurting more people (I know this isn't my thing to worry about, I didn't do anything wrong, but I love these people). Anyway, I'm rambling...I was just wondering how you handle being around family when she's there?