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Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009739 06/17/02 10:14 PM
Joined: Dec 2001 Posts: 362 S still his only love Member
still his only love Member S Joined: Dec 2001 Posts: 362	I am 8 months older than FWH - same grade in school, OW was 3 years older than H.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009740 06/17/02 10:59 PM
Joined: May 2000 Posts: 15,150 Kingdom of Caerlon C cinderella Member
cinderella Member C Joined: May 2000 Posts: 15,150 Kingdom of Caerlon	I am 7.5 months younger than my x. I am the bs, he is the ws.<p>And his crisis happened just before his 39th birthday.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009741 06/17/02 11:28 PM
Joined: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,697 W WillGetThruThis Member
WillGetThruThis Member W Joined: Nov 2001 Posts: 1,697	WH is 2-1/2 years older than me (BS)<p>OW1 is WH's age OW2 is 10 yrs younger than WH

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009742 06/18/02 05:16 AM
Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 5,575 N nikko Member
nikko Member N Joined: Jan 2002 Posts: 5,575	i am 5 years older than wh. i am 37, he is 32. the ow is his age.<p>the funny thing is he Never dated women his own age-not even in HS. he always was with older women.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009743 06/18/02 06:43 AM
Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 209 I ILoveULove Member
ILoveULove Member I Joined: Jun 2002 Posts: 209	I am one year younger than my FWH.<p>OW was supposed to be exactly my age, to the month. I was very surprised though, when I called her up and met with her. She definately looked older than me (IMHO) [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] . To my shock, her looks and mannerisms were so much like my MIL that I couldn't shake the thought through the whole meeting.<p>When I came home and mentioned it to my H he said hadn't seen it before but now that I'd mentioned it there were strong similarities.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009744 06/18/02 09:22 AM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661 F Faith1 Member
Faith1 Member F Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661	I am 21 months older than WH.<p>He's 31. OW is 26.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009745 06/18/02 10:03 AM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 101 T Tatchina Member
Tatchina Member T Joined: May 2002 Posts: 101	I am the BS/35 and the WS he is two years younger than I.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009746 06/18/02 10:44 AM
Joined: Apr 2002 Posts: 342 L llama Member
llama Member L Joined: Apr 2002 Posts: 342	I am 33, H will be 26 this month. OW is 39 - go figure!<p>Llama

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009747 06/18/02 10:59 AM
Joined: Mar 2000 Posts: 623 S Samantha * Member
Samantha * Member S Joined: Mar 2000 Posts: 623	You can count me in on the older BS<p>I'm nearly (4 yrs. 8 mos. but who's counting. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] ) five years (almost 50 [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img] ) older than FWH. FWH is 45. OW is 43.<p>TinyDancer,<p>There does seem to be a lot of older BSs now that you mention it.<p>Much love to all, Samantha<p>[ June 18, 2002: Message edited by: a blessed Samantha ]</p>

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009748 06/18/02 04:35 PM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 16 W WaterRabbit Junior Member
WaterRabbit Junior Member W Joined: May 2002 Posts: 16	Add me to the "older than the cheater" pile. I'm a BS who is five and a half years older than my H (me almost 39, he 33).

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009749 06/18/02 04:52 PM
Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 571 T TinyDancer OP Member
OP TinyDancer Member T Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 571	Wow thanks everyone. I know there's some pattern here but I'm not analytical enough to figure it out lol. I thought my H's former OW was 46 but it turns out she's 50!

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009750 06/18/02 05:07 PM
Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661 F Faith1 Member
Faith1 Member F Joined: Jul 2001 Posts: 3,661	well, it seems that there are several of us BW that are older than the WH. I'm wondering if it has more to do with maybe we were/are mother-figures? Did we take care of their problems for them? Were we the "responsible ones" (pay the bills, keep appointments, think things through, keep the house, etc)? Perhaps, they grew tired of the "mother-figure" and searched for someone that was more "fun", less nurturing, less responsible, etc. <p>On the contrary, some of them apparently found a MORE dominant OW.... so... I dunno! [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009751 06/18/02 07:15 PM
Joined: May 2001 Posts: 485 G GeezLouise Member
GeezLouise Member G Joined: May 2001 Posts: 485	I'm the BS and nine months younger than my H whose former OW is four years older than him.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009752 06/18/02 08:42 PM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 244 B bearcub_dup1 Member
bearcub_dup1 Member B Joined: May 2002 Posts: 244	Me (BS) 2 years older than H - OW is 2 yrs younger than H.

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009753 06/24/02 11:44 AM
Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,616 S SwH Member
SwH Member S Joined: May 2002 Posts: 2,616	BW - 41 WH - 35

Re: Poll for betrayed wives #1009754 06/24/02 01:39 PM
Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 379 A AllDaGoodNamzRTakn Member
AllDaGoodNamzRTakn Member A Joined: Jun 2001 Posts: 379	me bs older by 2 years

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