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#1009849 06/18/02 12:01 AM
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Hello fellow MB friends,<p>H has been acting really distant. Yesterday, being Father's Day you would think that he wanted to be with the kids. Well to begin the day H brother's baby was being baptized. H didn't want to go. Instead he asked me to go and take the baby, he would stay home with the 2 older kids. So I went. Well when I came home H told the 2 older kids that I would take them to the show. Yes, I took all 3 of them alone. H said that he wanted to stay home and relax. Well guess who was pulling up to the garage when I was pulling up? Yes..... H. H said that he just ran to the store for a few things. <p>Later in the evening. H didn't speak to me. H only answered me when I spoke to him. And today when I was going to go to work. Well when I was about to leave. My H said IT FIGURES YOUR GOING TO WORK, YOU KNOW THAT I DIDN'T SLEEP LAST NIGHT. I then asked H if he wanted me to stay home. H said NO. But I knew that he really wanted me to stay home, so I didn't go to work. I am fortunate enough to work for family, I really don't have to go in if I don't want to. Well when H finally woke up he thanked me for staying home. But before he left he told the kids. Now remember, I am the only one working.<p>What the heck is he doing? Can it still be fog? It has only been 3 months since d-day for me. But according to H the A has been over since DEC 01(6 months). I guess he fails to count the other 2 times that I caught him there. Can anyone give me some advice on what to do. <p>Lost
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Together 18 years, Married 10 years
2 boys (10 & 7) 1 girl (3)
d-day 03-12-02, d-day2 04-18-02, d-day3 04-28-02
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lost:<p>I've been away from your posts for a while, now. Has your H ever gone to Cing? He could certainly be behaving like this due to withdrawl. If he isn't getting counseling, he probably isn't dealing with his feelings very well. My W has bad moments from time to time, even though she claims she ended her A last November. (yeah, right!). At least she's getting better at telling me how she's feeling, and why, rather than keeping it bottled up and me guessing the wrong thing is going on...<p>Take care.

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