Need some advice. I cheated on my husband a long time ago (years) we seperated in September He cheated a couple of months ago. My question is we spend some time together and it could be like old times if he stopped calling me names and telling me I did 5 guys at a time etc. etc.
We spent fathers day together and had a great time together, he never spoke to our son Sunday nite like he usually does, he was sleeping. Monday comes and he was so nasty and up to the same old bull like usual when we have a nice time together. I just don't understand, 1 minute he's ok and the next it was like we never had that great time together. I'm trying to figure out, is he playing with me or can he get that mad the next day??
By the way I didn't do 5 guys, he just don't believe me and He told me awhile ago that if he doesn't answer the phone he's with someone (that pops in my head) I asked him he said he's with no one. Can use some advice.

Welcome to MB,<p>What have you read here? Seems like you 2 both need support and individual counseling. U can get one near your or call Steve or Jennifer. <p>There is a lot of distrust in your relationship and anger. Please read the basic concepts section and the books surviving an affair may help you see why he is babbling. <p>take care,
L.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by HDM:
<strong>Need some advice. I cheated on my husband a long time ago (years) we seperated in September He cheated a couple of months ago. My question is we spend some time together and it could be like old times if he stopped calling me names and telling me I did 5 guys at a time etc. etc.
We spent fathers day together and had a great time together, he never spoke to our son Sunday nite like he usually does, he was sleeping. Monday comes and he was so nasty and up to the same old bull like usual when we have a nice time together. I just don't understand, 1 minute he's ok and the next it was like we never had that great time together. I'm trying to figure out, is he playing with me or can he get that mad the next day??
By the way I didn't do 5 guys, he just don't believe me and He told me awhile ago that if he doesn't answer the phone he's with someone (that pops in my head) I asked him he said he's with no one. Can use some advice.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">

HDM I Suggest you that you talk to him and see what he really wants and try to help eachother out the best you can. I went through it all and i am back with my H. Its hard but you and him could do it. Life is to short to loose someone you love.Couneling is a great Idea. Wish you the best