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I want to know this for a long time. My late husband was once saw kissing another woman and my friend informed me about it. My husband promised to beat my friend (fortunately he did not) but he never wanted her back in our house. Now again the same happened with by new boyfriend. He also don't want to talk to my friend. Why are they getting so upset? What do they expext? Is my friend not suppose to tell me

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They get mad to try to make you feel bad and take the attention from them..that way, they can avoid facing what they did..stupid,Huh?<p>My husband did the same thing...girl, he doesn't like any of my close friends and they have never told me anything..I think he just know that they all know how bad he has hurt me and he feels gulity.

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The same thing here, my H is mad at everybody in the world, he hates my friends, mad at family members because he has to turn it around away from him, he has even gotten angry at me and accused me of things I know I did not do, I guess it just something they do. I even stop talking to some of my friends through out the years because of him and all along he has been the one doing wrong.<p>He has tore my self-esteem to pieces, but I allowed it! but NO MORE!!<p>Good luck to all

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I hear you Girl, No More!!!

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Tatchina,<p>As you can see I am feeling a little better today, got a little sleep and did not let him intimidate me today, I stood my grounds when I talked to him last night, I will get better!! All of us will!!

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It's not just men. My WW did/does the same thing when she is caught. She just blames me for everything. It sucks, but I will not be a doormat any longer.


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