Ok, I have to ask this?? What is going on here. You sound very, very hurt and we would like to help you if we can. I noticed that you are new here as this month, are you just finding about about an affair that your spouse is having? If so, please share with us. Yes, we may do some venting here because we know that it is a safe haven and everyone here at MB has kept me sane. Please do not believe that all marriages cannot be saved because of an affair. Let us help you, we know exactly how you feel if this is all new.<p>Now, if you are not the betrayed spouse, and I repeat if, and you are the OW or OM that is being rejected because the WS left you to restore their marriage, this message board is about rebuilding marriages, hence the name "Marriage Builders". There are other suitable web sites for you to visit.
Again, I repeat the above if you are not the Betrayed Spouse.
If you are the BS, Please let us help you, you don't have to go through this alone.

Going_crazy,<p>This person has only posted 6 times all on 6/21. None of these have a story to them. Since we have not heard from a1911a since I would assume they are an "OW". If not I hope to see more posts so we can offer help.<p>sty

u 2 are way to nice. Well that is a good thing but after seeing so many OPs hit and run here..... dare I ask? What do an OP and a pet rock have in common? <p>L.

"What do an OP and a pet rock have in common?"<p>They're both blue, except for the elephant!<p>Oops. Wrong joke.

What do an OP and a pet rock have in common? <p>Maybe we should start a new post on this one.<p>How about:<p>They are both hard, cold, and have no brains!!<p>[ June 27, 2002: Message edited by: going_crazy ]</p>

Gee, beats me. I'm an earth science teacher, and I LIKE rocks! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Estes