It has been 6wks since I have seen my H. The last time I talked to him was two weeks ago. I sent him a card just to say hi. but this was before our phone call. I called the house and a OW answered the phone then I called him at work I blew up, he blew up. well now its 2wks no word from him. I know he got my card. should I call? [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img]

Sorry for your pain, but I really can't shead any light on your situation because my H never left me.
I will say that even though you are angry about your situation...you should not have blown up on him. Blowing up on most men seems to push them away from you. Secondly, how do you know if he recieved the card? What if the OW intercepted before he could check the mail? You should call and check to see if he recieved something from you in the mail. If he says no, then tell him--if he says yes, just leave it alone and don't press it. Give it a few weeks again and if he doesn't contact you...don't push it. Of course you want him in your life...so just let him know and tell there will be no pressure between you two--like friends, but don't chase so much. Although you don't have to be nice to OW, but when she answers the phone...be nice anyway. Kill her with kindness and then her true colors will show. Be patient and pray. God may fix your marriage if you have faith, but sometimes your marriage may not work out because he has something better planned for you. Just put it in his hands and everything will work out according to His will. God Bless you!