hey honey maybe if you stop acting psycho your husband will chill out

Garsh, that's so deep and insightful! I'm so glad you put down your Zima long enough to share that insight with us and I'm SURE it will really change Honey's situation dramatically!<p> [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

sounds like you need another Zima, dude. [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img]

"Zima Man" said almost the same thing to TinyDancer about a year ago, check it out... Sounds like an OW to me, but then, what the heck do *I* know...???<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by Zima Man:
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I have been reading here for allmost 1 month and this thread got me feeling like I needed to answer.<p>To Tiny Dancer: How did she get your e-mail address? Had to be from your husband eh? Seems you are misdirecting your anger to her. <p>To the rest of you: You are all comming down hard on the other woman but what about Tiny's husband? He caused her pain not this other woman. What is wrong with the other woman's husband giving her a car as a welcome back to the marriage gift? Kudos to him for creative thinking. Maybe if Tiny get's a gift she'll cool off too. I'd give my wife what ever it took to get her back. </strong><hr></blockquote><p> [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Spoken like a true OW!!!<p>honey, please don't be offended by the drive-by, okay?! [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>For those interested in TinyDancer's reply, here's the thread:<p>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=37&t=010948&p=2

Wow I had forgotten about this poster and his/her twisted logic lol. <p>Honeyl isten to BTDT and ignore it. It's not worth a second thought.

I don't even get it Zima Man... besides trying to communicate with my H... face reality with him, love him and forgive him.. and putting up with NO CHILD SUPPORT and BLAME from him for everything since he cheated, left and abandoned our once very happy and loving relationship... (besides the fact that the man is an alcoholic and has not worked for 9 months on a reg. job... he blew his severence ck ... ) all the while I work, mantain our home and care for our beautiful boys..<p>I dont even know what is psycho.<p>I do call too much, but basically I am over that...since he doesnt like it, and it does not work... I am just trying to reach him (for 18 yrs I could talk to this man, my best friend, whenever I wanted.. and I was always there for him... ) I post here for support and sometimes vent a little more than some would even be comfortable with... You could say I am very honest and I really live ... <p>Sorry if you are offended or think something I wrote is psycho or out there... certainly... I never claimed to be totally perfect or completely sane... I honestly think infidelity and the break up of a family is the worst thing that can ever happen to any family... that really was happy together... it was just poof one day!<p>Hope you have a wonderful day and find kindness and are able to give it too! (Hey, I will try to be less psycho.lol! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] )
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