WS came out of the fog big-time one month ago on a visit to OW...He said he was coming back for good and would do anything to win me back. He promised our girls a wonderful summer and told them he would make everything up to them. Our recovery lasted three weeks and he's gone again. He says his final option now is to leave us, find a new job in his company and move in with her. He's willing to leave everything behind, especially his beautiful daughters who are just devastated by this latest betrayal. He tells them that he loves them.."this problem is strictly between Mum and I" but their hurt is so deep. The physical distance will be 800 miles...I don't expect him to ever have the contact with his children that they will need..he's always been the most involved, wonderful father...I can't believe he can survive this separation either. I don't know where to turn anymore. He cares but doesn't feel any romantic love for me anymore after thirty years of marriage...the situation is so bizarre. How does a middle-aged man lose his mind to the point that a virtual stranger becomes more imortant to him than his family and his wife who's loved him completely for 32 years. I hope that a good Plan A is remembered by him and not the pain of our last few days together. I just want to be happy again in my marriage with my H.
Wintergal