We need help from people who have been through this seminar. I will try to make this short and get to my questions. My husband decided just over 3 months ago to tell me he's been struggling with whether or not he loves me or ever has. We've been married 9 years, next week and have two daughters, 6 and 4. We tried counceling, bad experience.

The first 2 months, I just prayed and let him know that I loved him and was patient while he works out his feelings. We went out on a date in June and he was coming to tell me he wanted a D, but after we had a nice time, he realized he still had feelings for me. We went out on dates the month of June, have been having lots of wonderful family time with our daughters and his extended family. Then he said again, he is afraid he doesn't love me...I told him love is a choice, he doesn't agree...I said if you can go through a marriage seminar and the post sessions and still tell me you have no love for me than I'll let you go. He has agreed.

We are looking at this one and one other one, trying to decide which is best. The other one is ready with someone to answer my questions everytime I call...I'm having trouble getting answers from this one. They told me to go out here and post questions. I just wish I could talk to someone who has been through their seminar and can tell me your situation or how it helped or not.

I'm sure they see couples come through all the time where one is going just to make the other happy and not expecting it to work. That is where my husband is right now...I'm worried that he'll be able to go through this and almost 6 months of post sessions and not hear a thing. I'm worried that since there's no one to hold us accountable for the post sessions that we won't make time to sit down together and do what we're suppose to do.

We really need help with what to tell the kids, they think Daddy is staying with Grandma and PaPa to work on stuff...they don't see us kiss or hug anymore so I'm sure they know more than they're letting on. I think they need to know some more, but what?

Also, I wonder what if anything the seminar will do to address our living arrangement...will they encourage us to get back together to try to work on it? Or will they even address it?

I'm just praying that I will get some answers so we can make the right decision on which seminar to attend.

Thanks to anyone who can help!! AP