I know that sounds pretty lame but believe me, it was a GIANT step for my H. I really think that he listened too. I used a different approach this time and actually discussed with him separation/divorce/kids/counseling, the whole thing. He read some information about the MB that I had printed from the newsletter and he said that he would think about everything that we discussed. I feel like I'm begging for scraps again but I feel like a giant weight has been lifted from my shoulders. I also spoke to my parents about what is going on. I have suspected something for about a year, but have been trying to improve myself, hoping that he would see again why he married me. Things haven't improved, if anything things are worse.

I have hope now.

Someone asked me if I had told my H about this web site. I'm afraid to but am going to mention that he should visit and read some of the posts. Maybe he can gain some insight on what the betrayed person feels like.

Who knows.....