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IMHO, don't remind him weekly. GET legal help in that area. Let the law handle him on that one. I know this whole thing is a drag. I just don't think you saying or emailing him anything will get him to respond. I think only the law will BUT I know it will take time. Girl, its in times like these that prayer is the only answer to get you through not only a day at a time but each second at a time! This is going to be one of the hardest things you ever have to go through BUT it will pass and things will get better with or without your H - I promise.
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Honey - I would think that your parents would want to help you with the money because it is going to help you and the boys in the long run - You might be saving for a long time - and how can you save if you don't have any money ??? If it was ever the time to ask your parents it is now !!! You know I am getting stronger daily... I know my case is a little easier because my husband is paying me and we already have a lawyer and everything is mapped out - but that still doesn't change the fact that I don't want a divorce - I just know that right now I cannot fix him so I need to let him go - and that I am finding difficult but it is what he wants.... Ask for the money - get things started.... for you and your boys - not for him....
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hi and thanks for the support.. will be gone to a mk thing in dallas... seminar... i'm a mary kay lady.. until saturday... so out and getting pumped up to work- I have just had so little time for my business.... agghh! when I have had to have a job... but it can be done...
yall picture me in my pink cadillac, ok?
Hugs, HONEY
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I just got one more reason why not to call......
MONEY - YOU CANT AFFORD IT! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Stop wasting all your money on calls to him.
You could put 20cents into a jar everytime you feel the urge to ring or email - I mean real urge, not the constant nagging in your head - then you'll be able to get that retaining wall.
Dancer <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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